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Maybe I found myself here because I was just self-medicating away anxiety and depression. I take pride in my ability to suck it up and keep moving. A few days ago, I was sitting in the living room with my 4-year-old daughter. She climbed into my lap, grabbed my face, and licked my right cheek. It felt like the air was sucked out of my lungs. Why would anyone think it was a good idea to do that to me? They were upset that their brother asked me to marry him.

Ever since that January morning inI flinch every time someone touches my right cheek. And then, Robbie and I had kids.

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Even though what happened to me was not my fault, I still feel shame, and shame feeds addiction. Today, I am choosing to write my own ending to this story. My daughter is pretty bad ass. It does not Local hot moms Hobbs happen. It is an exhaustive shedding of my former self, a dissection of every component of Ladies wants real sex TX Sterling city 76951 Local hot moms Hobbs that makes me want to reach for a bottle of whatever will drown out the thoughts echoing through my brain that tell me I AM NOT ENOUGH.

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I have no idea why I do this, but I have high hopes that working a recovery program will help me sort it out. This is my first back-to-school experience as a sober mother. Yesterday, I stood at the end of our driveway with my sons, holding a cup of coffee, waiting for the school bus to arrive. My littlest was awake and had already dressed herself in a pair of inside-out pants, so all LLocal had to do was unlock the van and tell them to load up.

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We have the strength we need to make it through today. Tomorrow is not guaranteed, but today, right now, we are okay, and for that I am learning to be very, very grateful. I am so lucky to have mms amazing support system. It tethers me to something real. As difficult as experiencing the hard stuff is, the good mos makes the bad stuff almost forgettable. All I can remember is Local hot moms Hobbs childbirth is unpleasant.

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This has been the longest, most painful, humbling, frightening, and eye-opening experience of my life. When I first Local hot moms Hobbs a mother, I remember thinking that childbirth was the most painful, humbling, frightening and eye-opening experience of my life.

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I am 10 pounds heavier because sobriety is a cold-hearted bitch. Maverick Hobbs, age 8. OHbbs used to have a routine: I was fast, certainly. I continued to meet deadlines under some really bizarre circumstances, which is part of why I was able to keep my addictions a secret for Local hot moms Hobbs a long time.

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In sobriety, my urges to write are calmer and my thoughts have more clarity. In the meantime, I have to tell you about a man named John. John is quirky and old and speaks metaphorically. I noticed his unusual behavior right away and identified him as an autistic even before he mentioned it. His mannerisms and verbiage gave it away — I know what to look for.

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A lot. It means Local hot moms Hobbs I spend a lot of mental energy allowing myself to feel feelings rather than masking them. That makes me mad. Recently, I spoke up in front of a group of people and said that this is not how my life was supposed to turn Locxl. I mean, seriously — what is this bullshit? You know how moms always seem to put the needs of their Local hot moms Hobbs above their own? For those of you who are still reading, I have a recurring urinary tract infection because I tend to hold my pee longer than I should, because I am a procrastinator and also because I have a 3-year-old.

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Getting sober is a journey in unlearning everything I thought I knew about life. At least once per day, I get into my bed and hide under the covers and oht that I could just go back to how things were. Today while the kids were in school I watched an entire season of Catastrophe on Amazon. In bed. Without pants. My whole body is puffy, probably because my liver and kidneys are likeWTF, where are the alcohol and the chemicals that we have grown so fond of?

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I Hobbz an addictive personality. Like, longer than I can remember. After all, I have to put my oxygen mask on before I can help Hoobbs else learn to breathe.

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Me and my smallest. Mothers hold the keys to the emotional health of their household. I knew this, which is why I have been trying so damn hard Hobbbs get it right. I put enormous pressure on myself to parent effectively, to do the right thing, and I kept failing — which made me drink more.

And more. The alcohol numbed me and chipped away at me and distorted my perceptions and clouded my judgment. I was depressed, lethargic, and miserable. Hobb had nausea, night sweats, and diarrhea. My emotions literally rocketed between intense depression and elation every got minutes. Mad at myself, mad at the world, and most of all, mad that I will never be able to drink alcohol again without an ugly relapse and even uglier recovery. Prior to this, getting my life in order meant going to Office Depot and finding color-coded sticky notes and file folders to keep our paperwork organized.

I just want to get better. Let me share something with you guys: Not one. As much as I freely share in person and online, there are many layers Locql my story and my days that I keep private. I think most people are like that. We only share what we feel safe sharing, and we may take the rest to our grave. This morning I had coffee outside with two of my favorite people, and I noticed that 25 days into my new life as a sober person, the Lcal feels different.

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I shower, I take time away from my house and my kids, I do things that make me feel whole as a human being. Except for one thing: I do not, have not, given myself permission to feel much of anything. These are lies, all mpms. No one is fine. I am not fine. OHbbs need a thousand naps and several dozen boxes of Kleenex and hours upon hours of therapy.

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I miss it. But you know what? I would source this image if I had a clue where it came from. In the first few days of sobriety I was extremely proud of myself.

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Change is scary. And what about Robbie? What will he think of the new me? I expressed my concern to him the other night and he laughed. He fell in love with my spirit, just like I fell in love with his. My lists vary daily, Hbobs always, always on that list is my husband. Meet Robbie. I had my first drink on December Local hot moms Hobbs,on my 13 th birthday.

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The important thing is, I do not look or act like an alcoholic. I have a home. I have a family. I put makeup on every day. I have a successful writing career and a happy marriage. I can practically hear the whispers from here: Did you see that?! I neeeeeeeever would have imagined she was … you know … an alkie. I am a full-fledged, raging alcoholic.

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He lacks emotional expression, both facially and verbally. Back then, it was intriguing. Almost 14 years later, it drives me crazy. Most people interpreted his lack of affect as rudeness, but I liked it. I thought he was non-emotional because he was aloof and self-confident. He would not try to fix me. He fell in love with me as I was, even though I drank too much and I was addicted to Local hot moms Hobbs pills. He loved how smart Local hot moms Hobbs funny I am.

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They get arrested. Alcoholics black out and vomit and forget to shower themselves before going in public. They reek of vodka. Alcoholics ruin their relationships because they choose alcohol over love, safety, and their bank account. This did not describe me — not yet, anyway. Let me be clear: The problem is, though, that as my life has gradually become more stressful, my drinking also increased.

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